One of the greatest joys in a marriage is becoming a parent. A child is a wonderful gift from God that brings joy as well as new stresses into the couple's life. If you allow it, children can put a strain on your marriage and come between the husband and wife. The key phrase here is "if you allow it" so don't let this be you. Here are 5 things you can do to keep your marriage alive after having children:1. Realize that children come into your marriage. You don't join your child's life